Stop Imposing! Family Decisions Should Respect Individual Dreams.

001And um one of the big issues I have is a lot of times when I'm working with families, the families, the the children will come to me and say, you know, how did you get mom or dad to do that and to move forward? We've been struggling with that. And it doesn't matter whether it's a filing cabinet or a china cabinet or a uh kitchen cabinet or someone's uh plan for the future. You know, we haven't been able to get them to approach that and deal with that and make the decisions we think they should make. and they've already highlighted the key issues in that because they're not listening to what the individual or the couple wants. They're imposing their views and their values. But at least when you set goals, it gets you on the map. Like you've written something down and you're on the map. You're on the road. So it it kind of helps and like, oh well, I don't really want to go there. I think this is a straighter location. I just checked Google and they said this.