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Live Coffee with Dad and Friends

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YouTube / Dad, how do I?
Date
2022-12-31
Location
Middlesex County, MA
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4,353 words · about 25 min
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2026-06-06

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001you're alive hey everybody I'll take these glasses off hey kids great to see you that was my disguise uh how is everybody doing it's so great to see you I'm here with my brother Rick hello and my what are you who are you I'm your nephew Adam hello Rick's son nice to meet you yeah so yeah great to see everyone great to see everybody um so we didn't get to do do you like how I'm kind of rocking this thing to the side I'll cover my baldness it's a little harder to cover my baldness so uh so we didn't do the Christmas carols unfortunately this year it just didn't work out we uh we had a ice storm in our area and so people couldn't get around safely so unfortunately would have been nice but

002just weren't able to do it so yeah I'm sure you missed our voice beautiful voice we did have a lot of fun and we'll plan to do it next year it just didn't work out this year and we thought we might do the Christmas carols uh now but Christmas is over right so it's weird so we thought we'd do it New Year's doesn't have the same you don't have the same time yeah yeah so boy lots of comments hi everyone Hi everybody so let's see so uh cool news just to let you know I uh kind of as a follow-up I my last day at my job was yesterday so um I'm excited about what the new year is going to bring for all of us uh I'm gonna be able to post more I've

003got uh a lot of cool things coming up um and it is thanks to you guys you know support and I appreciate that but I do have several sponsors I just want to run through them real quick lubriderm's been awesome I have the free TV project that's coming up I have Free Tax USA a lot of you guys asked me about how to do taxes I thought it was a perfect partnership so it's a great way and you can do your taxes for free uh and then firestone's been off awesome visible by Verizon and I have easy fix I'm going to be doing some cool things with easy fix I'm actually going to a show um so I'm going to appear at a show in Las Vegas uh end of January so that should be

004pretty fun and I got a couple videos uh with them as well so uh so we always like to ask where are you from I see you're making tons of comments already so good morning everybody good morning Phillip Italy I love it yeah ciao Mexico central Florida Florida Germany we have German Roots our mom's Iowa name was horse Korea wow they're cranking they built Arkansas do I pronounce that right Scotland Fayetteville Arkansas Chicago India we're going to miss Ethiopia obviously Oklahoma Marysville Finland Pluto somebody's here from Pluto now is that a planet uh Cuba Seattle Earth Poland are people just putting you know countries out there are you really from there Sweden local joke yeah okay so what I'm representing Travis yeah let's talk about Travis real quick oh you can go ahead uh yeah

005he had some uh minor surgery uh yesterday um and but he's doing well and uh he sounded great he uh sent us a picture after surgery and he actually looked more alert than the attendant they've been working all day he got in late because they were slammed but anyway he's doing good and this is in honor of uh him yeah so we missed his laugh so yeah we do we miss him laughing he's at home right now just I wish I was here I think it did countertop to not be here so uh let's see so we have a few dad jokes that you guys are not aware of okay okay so I'm trying to speak well we'll do a Christmas themed one okay what's the difference between a Christmas alphabet Rick and the regular

006alphabet don't take too long it's there's no l oh wow the Christmas alphabet has Noel I still didn't even get it after you said oh well I get it okay so what's the scariest part of owing Santa money oh the elves come after you that would be scary too okay he knows where you've been sleeping oh that is scary okay we'll move on all right all right so it's just the scariest thing about Santa in general even if you didn't owe him money that's fair that is fair uh let's see um where are we at so we made it I've got a dad joke oh oh Rick's got a dad joke so this okay all right these guys know I've never in my life been able to tell a joke so I'll probably blow this

007but I came up with this the other day um how is a wise counselor like an herb farmer boys for that farmer don't know they both have Sage advice oh no that's good well thank you well thank you big words in that that was good I know and they weren't even written down no right wow that's amazing uh you have a dad joke nope you're not a dad I'm not a dad yeah hopefully soon [Laughter] so uh one thing I thought would be fun was so how do you celebrate New Year's what do you guys do um one thing I would just say real quick when I lived with you yeah right um I remember uh The Simple Pleasures were always big because we didn't have a whole lot of money right he was part

008of it you gotta make it big right so I think you did a good job of making yeah stuff where you're not spend a lot of money but just having yeah having time together and making it yeah right just having fun with what you got Karen gets a lot of kudos for that for her always giving us good interesting stuff to eat and stuff but uh out in our place I have another Studio we're kind of out in the in the woods and so you get some people that save their fireworks from other times of the year and so you kind of hope that you don't have anything blown up next morning so you're there to protect your house yeah you're kind of like please don't blow up my house um so there's a lot

009of occasional big boom um just pots and pans right yeah just banging pots and pans together oh nice anymore the older we get the tougher it is to stay up yeah I can relate to that yeah yeah what about you well you guys probably did similar stuff yeah I don't really have Traditions with my wife we sometimes somebody will have a party and so we'd go to that or sometimes we'll just watch the stuff on TV like watch the celebration in Seattle or something we haven't done anything super special but yeah I don't know uh those are usually the two options nice the backup plan is the is the TV yeah there you go we're pretty excited we're an exciting Bunch yeah yeah we turn up the volume a little bit more than normal that's

010been left um shoot uh so we like to play Skip-Bo everybody skip bone skip oh it's an easy card game and oh yeah you guys told me that yeah so every year we uh gather around play Skip-Bo and we have the score sheets from the previous years and I'm usually the winner but uh what [Laughter] I pretty agree I got my wife and my son uh did you want to make an appearance or no sure yeah get in here so you probably none of you I don't think I've ever seen my son he just woke up so I don't have a hat there's Kyle it's my son he's home from Virginia yeah yeah I'm Kyle [Laughter] nice so you guys uh have met Christine of course because she's been a big part of uh my

011channel but there's Kyle awesome yeah that was his debut that was his debut he got all dressed up yeah so so I don't know if you make uh resolutions I think um you know it's kind of a tradition to make resolutions unfortunately a lot of people if you're normal you break them within a week so uh one thing one thing I would say though um it'd be good to yourself again you know be kind to yourself I think we can be Our Own Worst Enemy I was talking to a friend uh recently and we're he you know and somebody told him that you know if if you if somebody talked to you the way you talk to yourself you'd punch him in the nose because you know we can we can be our own worst

012critic so if you do have some resolutions and you you start out in the new year and don't keep them start over you know it's okay don't don't go okay well I just gotta wait till next year and I'm just gonna keep that works for you want to try it once a year right I don't know just that's that whole thing where you know if you set a goal and you you don't quite reach it that's okay at least you're you're aiming at something and you know be kind to yourself so yeah um do I have more dad jokes or well you know uh I talk about resolutions yeah but yeah so we so we in the past couple years my wife and I we don't do resolutions in the traditional sense what we do

013is we choose a word for the year and uh so she went to grad school to become a school counselor and in the process she learned all these different sort of uh activities exercises to help kids sort of resolve certain things in their lives right and so sometimes it's choosing a word of the year and there's a whole process you can go through it's not a big process but you can go search it on the internet you can find this word of the Year tool and basically it gives you uh you kind of write out or you choose words based on kind of what you're wanting uh to do in this new year and then you um you Whittle it down essentially until you find this one word so last year I had just been

014reading this book called How to break up with your phone and in reading that book I found out that there's so many things at your phone when you're just so attached to your phone you're really hurting your brain a lot and you're kind of hurting aspects of yourself they're on their phones right now yeah so don't give up on it now wait wait till this is more I'm gonna say more um but uh but so I I just wanted to to care for myself more and care for others more so my word of the year last year was nourish so I that was kind of so instead of making like a grand resolution like I'm gonna start going to the gym I gotta stop you for just a second so I don't lose it so

015Amber your wife making a comment we aren't boring Adam we are going to a New Year's Eve wedding today that's true there you go sorry I didn't mean to cut you off so but my word for the year was going to be boring but not anymore I guess not uh weddings um so so yeah we are going to a wedding today so congratulations Henry and Camilla uh all right congratulations but anyways we're uh when you choose a word then you're not like you're not attached to one idea of like what you have to do for that full year in terms of an activity or in terms of a new thing you're going to be doing uh like painting or something like that but but you can maybe you you transition from painting to drawing maybe

016you find a new and maybe it's just art is your your word of the year I don't know so this year I'm looking at maybe trust being a good word um because I'm also shifting my work from what I've been doing the past several years to something new and so I just want to trust the process I want to trust myself and I want to trust God and all that so if Trust might be my word this year banding some words around it could be give I want to be more giving well you're kind of running out of time so you got to come up with that word yeah it's true uh we'll be working on it tomorrow actually but yeah uh I I did a little homework oh okay on resolutions yeah um I

017like to think of them as goals maybe so yeah you know and the thing about New Year's I think the weird reason people do it is it gives you a starting date it's like okay I'll start then and then you kind of keep track of it it's kind of like starting a new school year or something so it's kind of a good thing the resolutions and I thought I looked up resolutions and uh words are interesting because sometimes you break them down yeah and so it's kind of uh trying to uh kind of reach a point where something is resolved um and uh resolved research result solve it again yeah yeah so that's um what are some years do you have any uh you're willing to share some resolutions yeah yeah I mean I always

018try to I kind of give myself a little bit of Grace around this time because my kids are home and so we tend to eat more and so right you don't want to get back in the um routine of now that especially since I've left my job now um I'm gonna plan to walk the dogs regularly you know we do it but it's kind of oh they need a walk and really we need it for our own health too and I just got to be better make better choices as far as my health is concerned I'm getting older you know right right so I gotta make sure that I you know sometimes it can get away from you oh yeah so I do want to yeah I want to eat healthier and all that but

019I also you know I think Life's a balance and I try to enjoy my kids company and kind of yeah maybe eat a little bit more while they're home because we're you know yeah a lot of times when you get together you're eating dinner or you're doing stuff like that right and rather than go I should do that kind of do it and then make up for it in the new year so yeah I'm usually pretty good about it too I think I get back on track yep and then Adam taught me how to paint so I'm planning to do more painting I'm looking forward to having the time to be able to do that I did it make I've done two yeah and I thought they both turned out decent so you know it's

020one of those things where I think the more you do it the better you get so yeah for sure just like anything right Adam you gotta well I choose words I haven't chosen my words oh that's it okay but uh trust give yeah okay we went through that I thought you actually had a like I want to improve on this or something oh no I'd like to improve on it okay yeah listening procrastinating oh procrastination none of you guys probably procrastinate no I don't know I put the pro in Pro Craftsman yeah but anyway try to you know follow through on if I thought yeah yeah you waited too long to say that you should have said that earlier you procrastinate oh okay all right okay you're right um so how are we doing that

021time oh we're doing good you know what I want to do what oh no you know I want to uh I want to actually appreciate stay in the moment more I want to appreciate the moment I can often look at like uh things like today's wedding you know I can think okay that's another thing on the calendar that I got to do that day or whatever like just different things that should be fun and should be enjoyable and I can I can guard my time too much and that's yeah and that's kind of where that giving and that's why I'm thinking about that word give for the year yeah but yeah I want to be more in the moment enjoy the people around yeah because we get so busy it's kind of like check that

022off check that out yeah it's like before you know it's like whoa did I do that I guess I did and he didn't even know it wasn't even there yeah exactly you didn't stay in the moment before right right or do you pay attention to my wisdom Wednesdays is that where you is that you've got that that idea from last Wednesday I did actually I did watch that and I thought you know what I'm gonna steal this it was uh enjoy the little things because one day you may look back and those are the big things right and it is true you got to slow it down and enjoy because we are a lot of times what's that I think it's a John Lennon quote where life is what happens while you're planning for tomorrow

023yeah yeah yeah it is true you got to make sure to yeah be in the moment yeah very good yeah I like that um so Dad joke all right yeah you didn't bring a bad joke even though I did warn you you were I have some I mean I have some right here on my app called Google just give me a second what do you call I don't think I used this one before I don't know what do you call a winter monster with a six-pack did I say this one before a winter monster with a six pack like muscle six Packers oh I know I know it's a a abdominal Stone oh wow [Music] thanks for all your kind comments by the way yeah sorry we should probably be reading them occasionally you guys

024are all so kind if the whole world was kind of just Community the world would be a better place yeah sure yeah um a Yeti cooler not a cooler Yeti maybe uh here's a good one okay you've got some now yeah okay what did the fishermen what did the fishermen say to the magician Cod any Cod oh God all right I'm done I hit my quota okay which days are the strongest which days of the week are the strongest Saturday and Sunday the rest are weekdays oh did you get both of those membership website or something like the abdominal what's the bicep say that no okay uh so one thing uh I wanted to touch on a little bit more we kind of glossed over last time if you're comfortable with it so is uh

025so you your recovery anniversary yeah uh was December 10th December December 7th was was when they I was in the hospital about three or four days before that and Britain and undergoing chemo leading up to that for a couple months and then went to the hospital and then I got Don's uh stem cells transplanted into my body on December 7th 2012. yeah yeah so it's been 10-year anniversary since then and then I was in uh speaking of New Year's um I spent New Years in the hospital that time because it's about a month recovery in the hospital yeah and then I got out um and then I had to go to another house so anyway for any of you guys who go through uh cancer or some sort of long-term uh disease like that or

026struggle whatever um I just want you to you know be encouraged and uh and I I had a lot of time to read my Bible I was in there and uh I I claimed a scripture claim in a script I don't know what that means but anyway one one verse kind of stuck out to me okay and it's Proverbs 21 31 and it says uh the horse is prepared for battle but the victory Belongs to the Lord and so what I took that to mean is I have my responsibility preparing the horse for battle I did what the nurses said to do even though I didn't want to drink more water drink more water Mr Kenny okay I'll drink more water and do all the a few of the things get up and walk Mr

027Kenny I'd get up and walk uh and so I took that as my responsibility I was going to do that and then leave the results up to the Lord if he chose to take me home then then I knew my family was in good shape because they all trust in the Lord and so uh either way it was going to turn out fine but as it turns out the victory he gave it to me in this particular uh case so if you're going through something please uh uh you know do your part my own thoughts are and I could hope that you have it is that you take it to the Lord and uh restaurant you know give it to him and uh and take some rest leave it in his hands so anyway that's

028kind of what I wanted yeah well thanks for sharing that so uh yeah so Rick had leukemia to just for those that don't know and it was a pretty scary time um yeah it kind of came out of the blue and yeah like those things tend to do and um but now you know it's like wow that it's almost like it didn't happen sort of way but then there's times that something will bring back the memory I did uh I think I have more anxiety now um I'll blame it on the drugs I my memory is not as good I'll blame it on the drugs oh wait the drugs before my no why no no no um but anyway so uh um yeah thanks for um mentioning that you know praise God it's been 10

029years yeah and so for those of you who that don't know when um you know when I was younger I went to live with Rick and Karen when I was 14. and so Rick and I are really close because of that I'm almost and with that almost kind of like we're like yeah sometimes I'll call Adam Rob yeah yeah he does is that a compliment Adam are you going uh it depends on the day so um we talked about Travis's surgery too the different things that uh we're all going through you know everybody there's always something it seems like and then our nephew um our nephew uh has struggled with um some sort of brain cancer a tumor on his brain yeah just recently he yeah had some he's been battling it for a while

030yeah removed you know when you're working around your the brain of course you got to be real careful removing tumors and stuff so it's a tough process uh but he's been doing well in controlling it after the initial removal of most of it then he's been chemo and other things so he's been uh dealing with that but uh apparently developed a little complication but he's doing well yeah so anyway those are kind of on our because that we just found out about that yesterday that it kind of came back and yeah had some bleeding and so yeah something something he's my godson too so um anyway just prayers for prayers for him uh let's see do we want to try to sing a song or sure oh we could try do we want to sing

031a song you know if you guys sing along so you can drown us out we got to get in closer dad and I are getting serious here what is going on here you got a harmonize harmonize plus we got to read the paper yeah so do we do 12 Days of Christmas I I think so let me try that that was kind of a big hit last year okay and now we're gonna try to do do we want to do this for New Years is it differently you just gotta it's a first day of Christmas first day of New Year yes that would be the only time does it come up later where you where you do that so uh I don't know I don't remember every every time every verse you say on the

032second day of Christmas so we have to do New Year's do you think we can pull it off can we substitute that well if we don't it'll be funny so we can try Okay uh so who wants what are we reading I could do uh no I was just reading that one long one there gal in Ukraine so yeah my prayers are with Ukraine yeah sure for whoever's involved in all that yep so yeah do we wanna just get just I mean it's 12 so we usually get four cards right okay and who wants what let's start bing bing bing okay so I get the first one does that mean I always have to end every verse with the Partridge yeah and so every time as we come back around we gotta yeah oh my

033goodness well we'll see how this goes yeah this might go make this go viral yeah all right uh on the first day of New Year's my true love gave to me a partridge in a pear tree now what um the second day of New Year's my true love gave to me two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree on the third day of Christmas New Year's all right on the first day of New Year's birthday on the third day of New Year's all right cut we rehearsed this on the third day of New Year's my true love gave to me all right Three French Hens two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree on the fourth day of New Year's my true love game TV four calling Birds Three French Hens

034two turtle doves and a partridge and a pear tree uh-oh on the fifth day of New Year's my true love gave to me five gold rings four calling Birds Three French Hens two turtle doves and a partridge and a Harry I think I have this part last year too on the sixth day of New Year's my true love gave to me 60 Lane five gold rings four calling Birds Three French Hens two turtle doves and a porridge in a pear tree on the seventh day of New Year's my true love gave to me seven swans of swimming excuse [Music] to turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree on the eighth day of New Year's my true love gave to me eight maids of milking seven swans are swimming six geese a length five

035gold rings four calling Birds Three French and two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree on the ninth day of New Year's my true love gave to me nine ladies dancing eight maids of milking seven swans are swimming six geese laying five gold rings four calling Birds Three French and two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree what are we on the 10th day of New Year's my true love gave to me ten Lords of Leaping nine ladies dancing eight maids of milking sevens wants us swimming six he's a laying five gold rings and two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree is it me yes I'm getting tired on the 11th day of New Year's my true love gave to me eleven Pipers piping ten Lords of Leaping

036why not lying ladies nine ladies dancing eight maids and milking seven swans are swimming six keys are laying five of glorys four calling Birds Three French and two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree on the final day of New Year's my true love gave to me 12 drummers drumming 11 Pipers piping ten Lords of Leaping nine ladies dancing eights made some milking seven swans swimming excuse me Glory [Music] four calling Birds Three French Hens two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree wow that's the most reading I've done I know I was getting tired the headache oh so hopefully you all enjoyed that I think we lost about 50 yeah there's nobody there what where'd Diego Go I don't blame them so let's see we did that nice thank you

037thank you guys uh that was a lot of fun yeah yeah that has to be a tradition I think we have to always include that love it yeah in every live throughout the year every live video you do yeah no matter the month okay sounds good are we gonna pop do you think no oh uh well we're well we are at 8 30. so do we want to hook up how long that take like 15 minutes to do that yeah uh let's see where do pirates get their hooks okay there's got to be a store there some store second hand store second hand that was pretty good all right so I guess we're gonna wrap up huh yeah this has been a lot of fun uh thank you guys for for joining joining us and

038sorry we didn't do the the Christmas carols but we'll definitely start doing that and we're going to do some more lives trying to figure that out uh what what my schedule looks like I wanna I'd like to on a regular basis maybe once a month we do a live um so you guys kind of know because it's a little difficult to get the word out I feel like with um with my different platforms because I'm on so many different platforms and each platform doesn't want you telling them to go to another platform and so when I post on Instagram about a live on YouTube I don't think they like it that much that much which is understandable and so I'm trying to figure that out but uh anyway thank you guys so much for everything

039looking forward to the new year we got some cool things planned uh lots of sponsorships and lots of fun things and I'll be be able to post more now because I can put some energy into this because right you know for the last two and a half years I've been actually the camera's up there for the last two and a half years I've been spinning plates as fast as I can and I'm looking forward to to all that we're going to be able to accomplish and then you know looking forward to maybe traveling a little bit and getting to meet some of you um that's in the plans but still still early still trying to see what that looks like so do we want to say happy New Year oh yeah and with that okay

040yeah one last thing anyway or something I've been wanting to say is that you know I go through Rob's Channel and read the comments and what have you uh and so you guys are awesome but there is the comments and I know Rob can attest to this and whoever reads the comments some of them are heartbreaking I'll tell you the truth uh what so many some of you young people are going through uh where uh Dad or Mom or whoever kind of uh didn't do their job uh and uh my heart goes out to you it truly does but I want to say and Rob has said this in the past there's a future right hang in there you do the right thing uh you know you do what's right and uh and leave the

041rest to uh you know that's on them okay you do the rep there's get you know this thing the young guy that's you know Grandma steps in or whoever it's it's awesome uh for those of you who are doing the right thing hang in there yeah yeah I think that's true yeah I mean if we're gonna go talk about that a little bit I thought we were ending up and we're gonna oh okay okay sorry yeah but yeah so I will say this and I've shared this a lot about forgiveness and moving on from your past you know if you if you've gone through some stuff you know everybody's gone through different things to some extent and um and I've shared my story of you know holding on the unforgiveness for a while and then

042letting go of it was freeing for me and I and I so I want to encourage people to be able to forgive and even forgive yourself too if you've done some stuff that you're not proud of uh you know we gotta be able to move on move forward right you can't keep dragging the past into the future it's not beneficial and then you know a victim card I talk about a victim card and you know and I had a victim card you know that I played and it felt good when people would kind of feel sorry for you but it wasn't productive you know and so once you can kind of break free from that boy then it's life is pretty exciting because then you're able to you know you're not you're not taking up

043mind space with stuff that's non-productive it doesn't help you know you can learn from the past but don't keep bringing the hurts from the past into the future so yeah anyway thank you guys uh so much as we close out here we got some whoa dude [Laughter] [Music] Happy New Year what do we blow the microphone wish you guys nothing but the best um God bless you guys bye [Laughter]

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